UNSAID

How it works

Five quiet steps. No spiral.

UNSAID helps you deliver rejection, disclosure, and boundaries clearly — without pressure, confrontation, or exposure.

  1. 01

    Choose your situation

    Situationship, rejection, disclosure, pregnancy. Short, plain descriptions — no interpretation needed.

  2. 02

    Choose your tone

    Supportive, cautious, boundary-setting, firm, urgent, accountable. You decide how it lands.

  3. 03

    Approve or edit the message

    A calm draft appears. You can adjust it. No essays — just what needs to be said.

  4. 04

    Choose how it travels

    One & Done, Clean Cut, or Off Record. Every option keeps your real number private.

  5. 05

    Send and step back

    Delivered from a temporary number. Replies are buffered so you’re never caught off guard.

Access

One & Done

One message. No residue.

Send one message using any scenario and tone. The number expires after delivery.

Best for

Polite rejection · Situationship ending · One-off disclosures

Clean Cut

Time-limited. Replies allowed.

A temporary number active for a set period so you can send, receive, and respond safely.

Best for

Pregnancy disclosure · STI disclosure · Anything that may need a reply

Off Record

Your number. Your rules.

A dedicated UNSAID number for repeated use, boundaries, and long-term safety.

Best for

Boundary enforcement · Ongoing unwanted contact · Repeat situations